A shared bucket list with active scheduling and planning
Most couples apps send you daily questions. Not Pink helps you do the stuff. A shared bucket list with a 4-phase flow (Align, Plan, Prepare, Relive) that turns "we should do that sometime" into dates on the calendar. Offline-first, built for couples who've been together long enough to know relationships don't run on autopilot.
I'm Thomas. I built Not Pink because my partner and I kept having the same conversation. "We should go to Lisbon." "We should try that pottery class." Then nothing happens. "We should" isn't a plan.
Every couples app I tried was a daily-question app or a streak tracker. None of them helped us do things together.
So I built the thing I wanted. Every idea moves through four phases:
Align (we both want this)
Plan (pick a when and where)
Prepare (book it, pack it)
Relive (photos and reflections after)
Both partners confirm to advance a phase, which stops one person from dragging the other through life.
A few things under the hood:
Offline-first sync via PowerSync. Works on a plane or a rural Airbnb with no signal.
Kotlin Multiplatform, so I can ship Android once iOS is stable.
No ads, no feed, no streak dashboards pretending to score your relationship.
Would love feedback from makers who've shipped lifestyle or couple apps. If you've got a partner, the test is whether you both open it more than once this week.
About Not Pink on Product Hunt
“A shared bucket list with active scheduling and planning”
Not Pink launched on Product Hunt on April 28th, 2026 and earned 83 upvotes and 5 comments, placing #22 on the daily leaderboard. Most couples apps send you daily questions. Not Pink helps you do the stuff. A shared bucket list with a 4-phase flow (Align, Plan, Prepare, Relive) that turns "we should do that sometime" into dates on the calendar. Offline-first, built for couples who've been together long enough to know relationships don't run on autopilot.
On the analytics side, Not Pink competes within iOS, Productivity and Lifestyle — topics that collectively have 762.5k followers on Product Hunt. The dashboard above tracks how Not Pink performed against the three products that launched closest to it on the same day.
Who hunted Not Pink?
Not Pink was hunted by Thomas Flad. A “hunter” on Product Hunt is the community member who submits a product to the platform — uploading the images, the link, and tagging the makers behind it. Hunters typically write the first comment explaining why a product is worth attention, and their followers are notified the moment they post. Around 79% of featured launches on Product Hunt are self-hunted by their makers, but a well-known hunter still acts as a signal of quality to the rest of the community. See the full all-time top hunters leaderboard to discover who is shaping the Product Hunt ecosystem.
For a complete overview of Not Pink including community comment highlights and product details, visit the product overview.
Thomas Flad
Hey Product Hunt,
I'm Thomas. I built Not Pink because my partner and I kept having the same conversation. "We should go to Lisbon." "We should try that pottery class." Then nothing happens. "We should" isn't a plan.
Every couples app I tried was a daily-question app or a streak tracker. None of them helped us do things together.
So I built the thing I wanted. Every idea moves through four phases:
Align (we both want this)
Plan (pick a when and where)
Prepare (book it, pack it)
Relive (photos and reflections after)
Both partners confirm to advance a phase, which stops one person from dragging the other through life.
A few things under the hood:
Offline-first sync via PowerSync. Works on a plane or a rural Airbnb with no signal.
Kotlin Multiplatform, so I can ship Android once iOS is stable.
No ads, no feed, no streak dashboards pretending to score your relationship.
Would love feedback from makers who've shipped lifestyle or couple apps. If you've got a partner, the test is whether you both open it more than once this week.